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	<title>Chuck Milam &#187; chuckfail</title>
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		<title>Dream Control:  Blessing.  Curse.  Both.</title>
		<link>http://chuck.milams.net/2010/03/13/dream-control-blessing-curse-both/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 12:17:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chuck</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m one of those people who can take control of dreams if they start to get out of hand.  I rarely have out-of-control-scary nightmares, because I never let them get that far.  When things start to get really freaky, I just say to myself “This isn’t real” and I stop it.  When realistic things happen [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’m one of those people who can take control of dreams if they start to get out of hand.  I rarely have out-of-control-scary nightmares, because I never let them get that far.  When things start to get really freaky, I just say to myself “This isn’t real” and I stop it.  When realistic things happen in my dreams that are still uncomfortable, I can usually put an end to those, too.</p>
<p>For example, I might have a dream where I come back to my parked car to find it totally gutted out and stripped clean of my property.  I’ll feel the pit of loss in my stomach.  A voice will say: “Looks like you left the doors unlocked, with all your stuff&#8211;even your laptop&#8211;in plain sight, and you parked in a bad spot.”</p>
<p>Here is where I take over:  “No, I would never do something like that.  This is obviously a dream, and it ends now.”  Then, I wake up.</p>
<p>Pretty nice, right?  Well, sometimes that backfires on “pleasant” dreams, too.</p>
<p>Take last night for example.  Perhaps writing last night’s blog post (not &#8220;viewable by public&#8221; just yet) right before I went to bed caused me to have a dream where I was “visited” by a ghost of girlfriend past.  It was actually rather pleasant—right up until my rational mind took over to remind me it couldn’t possibly be real and woke me up suddenly.</p>
<p>Sigh.</p>
<p>My subconscious emotional defense mechanisms are still at work.</p>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Fine. [Not] Really.</title>
		<link>http://chuck.milams.net/2010/01/22/im-fine-not-really/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2010 21:06:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chuck</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Coworker comes into my office, singing “Chuckie’s in Love!” Ugh. Not this. Not now, please. What crappy timing. I wince, but I try to look Ok: Straighten up, look strong, confident, in charge and in control. I am none of these at the moment. “How’s life, Chuck? You doing Ok?” I do my best nod [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Coworker comes into my office, singing “Chuckie’s in Love!”</p>
<p>Ugh. Not this.  Not now, please.  What crappy timing.  I wince, but I try to look Ok:  Straighten up, look strong, confident, in charge and in control.  I am none of these at the moment.</p>
<p>“How’s life, Chuck?  You doing Ok?”</p>
<p>I do my best nod and smile, but apparently what I mustered had “not so much” written all over it.</p>
<p>Coworker gets a little twinge of concern:  “You Ok, Chuck?”</p>
<p>This time, with more effort, I manage to squeak a “Sure, I’m good” out of my mouth and give a much better fake smile.  The coworker relaxes.</p>
<p>“Well, it can’t be that bad, I mean…you’re not cryin’, right?!”</p>
<p>I think to myself, “You should have been here yesterday.”</p>
<p>I say instead, “Yeah, I guess you’re right.”  The coworker smiles and leaves.</p>
<p>Sigh.</p>
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		<title>I Need a New Blog Title</title>
		<link>http://chuck.milams.net/2010/01/16/i-need-a-new-blog-title/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 20:52:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chuck</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[This Blog]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hive mind, I need your help here. I have determined that the title of this blog: &#8220;Chuck Milam&#8217;s Musings &#8211; Random Thoughts From a Not-So Random Dude,&#8221; is hideous, weak, and lame. I&#8217;m now taking suggestions for a new blog title from those of you that are better with the creative than I. Leave it [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hive mind, I need your help here.  I have determined that the title of this blog: &#8220;Chuck Milam&#8217;s Musings &#8211; Random Thoughts From a Not-So Random Dude,&#8221; is hideous, weak, and lame.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m now taking suggestions for a new blog title from those of you that are better with the creative than I.  Leave it in the comments below.  Thanks.</p>
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		<title>Where I Almost Ask Apple to Give What They&#8217;ve Already Provided Me</title>
		<link>http://chuck.milams.net/2010/01/12/where-i-almost-ask-apple-to-give-what-theyve-already-provided-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 04:22:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chuck</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life Logging]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, I’ve been meaning to write this little letter to Apple for something like two years now.  Read on for the #Chuckfail afterward: Dear Apple: I would really like to have more granular control over my podcast episode settings in iTunes. For example, let’s look at the “The Classic Tales” podcast.  I want to keep [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, I’ve been meaning to write this little letter to Apple for something like two years now.  Read on for the #Chuckfail afterward:</p>
<pre style="padding-left: 30px;">Dear Apple:</pre>
<pre style="padding-left: 30px;">I would really like to have more granular control over my podcast episode
settings in iTunes.</pre>
<pre style="padding-left: 30px;">For example, let’s look at the “The Classic Tales” podcast.  I want to keep all
of those episodes until I get around to listening to them.</pre>
<pre style="padding-left: 30px;">However, for something like the “Wall Street Journal This Morning,”
a daily news show, I only want the most recent episode.  No one likes to listen
to last week’s news.</pre>
<pre style="padding-left: 30px;">As it stands right now, I can have to choose between the two options for
keeping podcast episodes, and it’s the same settings for all podcasts
in my iTunes library.  I’m betting this is not a difficult feature to implement
and I’m also willing to bet I’m not the only one who wants this.</pre>
<pre style="padding-left: 30px;">Thanks,</pre>
<pre style="padding-left: 30px;">Chuck</pre>
<p>So, after I finally write this out and just before I decide to post it here, I switch over to iTunes to check on something…and guess what?  Yep.  There are indeed episode settings for individual podcasts, right there in front of me.  Glad I caught it before I posted this and looked like a fool.  In my defense, I’m assuming this is a recent new feature that I had missed. I hope so, anyway.</p>
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